You had been a challenge for her. You had a superior significance and she was irresistibly fascinated by you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I am about to make a wild guess here, but is it that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that now, you're zero challenge for her? Not to mention that she realizes if she wanted to, at any moment she could get you back again and twisted around her finger simply by saying the word?
I am going to be a bit crude here, but as you may already know, to develop into a challenge once again you need to show to your ex lover that her sexuality has no influence over you any more. Think about what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which think about exactly what it's like when you continue doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You will be indicating to the woman that you are a low-value guy without any other sexual options.
Your lady won't respect you again until you refuse her sexual dominance over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not personally interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Make sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Don't be "pals" with her, because that rewards your ex with the continued consent of power over you while supplying her a handy excuse to stay split up. (She reasons that she is letting you down easy doing this, assuaging any culpability she may experience.)
On the other hand, make sure to keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. Probably lots of your belongings are at her place, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She could request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want everything back.
The very best response to this is simply "No, not yet. The reason is simply because her possessing your things (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the up coming 3 weeks, you must totally acknowledge -- and embrace -- the fact that you are an independent man now. Take what occurred with your ex-lover and learn from it. You have a golden chance to transform your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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